UPDATE: I forgot to make corrections before making the original post. This version contains the corrections.
admire : to respect and approve of someone or their behavior, or to find someone or something attractive and pleasant to look at • affect : to have an influence on someone or something, or to cause them to change • approach : to deal with something • capable : able to do things effectively and skillfully, and to achieve results • celebrity : someone who is famous, especially in the entertainment business • competitive : wanting very much to win or be more successful than other people • confide : to tell something secret or personal to someone whom you trust not to tell anyone else • deliberately : in a intentional or planned way • eager : wanting very much to do or have something, especially something interesting or enjoyable • emcee : to serve as a person who makes certain that official events happen correctly, for example by introducing performers at the right time • encourage : to make someone more likely to do something, or to make something more likely to happen • executive : someone in a high position, especially in business, who makes decisions and puts them into action • expert : a person with a high level of knowledge or skill; a specialist • flirt : to behave as if sexually attracted to someone, although not seriously • helpless : unable to do anything to help yourself or anyone else • hold your own : to be as successful as other people or things in a situation • host : a person who introduces guests and performers, especially on television or radio • human interest story : report in the media that focuses on details about people’s experiences and feelings rather than just a newsworthy event • idol : someone who is admired and respected very much • incompetent : lacking the ability or skill to do something successfully or as it should be done • indirect : avoiding clearly mentioning or saying something • interact : to communicate with or react to • intimidate : to frighten someone or make them nervous by causing them to lose confidence • involved with : being in a close relationship with someone • make a move : to start a romantic or sexual relationship with someone • manly : having the qualities which people think a man should have • misfortune : bad luck, or an unlucky event • natural disaster : an event such as an earthquake not caused by humans that results in great harm, damage or death • obsessed : unable to stop thinking about something; too interested in or worried about something • outgrow : to lose interest in an idea or activity as you get older and change • passive : not acting to influence or change a situation; allowing other people to be in control • regret : a feeling of sadness about something sad or wrong or about a mistake that you have made, and a wish that it could have been different and better • stake out : to watch a place continuously in order to catch criminals or to see a famous person • strategy : a detailed plan for achieving success in situations such as war, politics, business, industry or sport, or the skill of planning for such situations • stubborn : describes someone who is determined to do what they want and refuses to do anything else • sympathize : to understand and care about someone’s problems • take a dump : to excrete the contents of the bowels • upper hand : If you have the upper hand, you have more power than anyone else and so have control • win somebody’s affections : to succeed in persuading someone to love you • wreak havoc : to cause confusion and lack of order in a violent and often uncontrolled way
♀1 How many male friends do you have?
A Not many. I don’t interact much with men.
B Many.
C Not many. But I am quite close to the ones I do have.
Who is your best male friend? What for you are the biggest differences between a same-sex and opposite-sex friend? Which do you think is easier—becoming friends with someone you were once romantically involved with, or becoming romantically involved with a friend? Have you had either of these experiences?
♂1 How many female friends do you have?
A Not many. I don’t interact much with women.
B Many.
C Not many. But I am quite close to the ones I do have.
Who is your best female friend? As friends, how do you think men and women are most different? Which do you think is easier—becoming friends with someone you were once romantically involved with, or becoming romantically involved with a friend? Have you had either of these experiences?
♀2 When somebody flirts with you and expresses an interest in getting to know you better, what is your most likely response?
A Why not?
B Stop and try to figure out what he’s really thinking.
C I don’t pay any attention to him, because I have enough friends and don’t need to find new friends that way.
How often do strangers approach you and flirt? Is there anyone that you especially enjoy flirting with? How did your current or most recent partner first approach you? Have you ever been caught by your partner, or caught your partner, flirting with someone else? What happened? Do you think flirting is acceptable if the person is married?
♂2 Which of these describes how you usually take a dump?
A I just do it as quickly as possible.
B I relax and enjoy it.
C I take it slow, and read a book or do something else meanwhile.
How long do you usually spend on the toilet? What kinds of materials do you read when you are in the bathroom? What other things do you do while you are taking a dump, besides reading?
♀3 When you’re upset about something, do you talk it over with your girlfriends?
A No. I don’t like to let others know about personal matters.
B Only if I really need to confide in someone. Otherwise, I won’t bring it up.
C Of course. That’s what friends are for, after all.
Who do you most often confide in? Do many of your friends often confide in you when they are upset about something? When was the last time you were upset enough about something that you wanted to talk it over with friends? Do you think women friends are better to talk to about problems than men friends are?
♂3 What would your reaction probably be if you were about to go do some shopping and it started raining?
A Forget it. I can buy the stuff another day.
B If it wasn’t raining too hard, I would go ahead and go.
C I would go ahead with my plans whatever the weather.
How much does the weather affect what you do in your free time? How much does the weather affect your mood? What type of shopping do you enjoy? Where do you most enjoy going to do your shopping?
♀4 Which of these bad habits that men often have do you most dislike?
A Smoking and drinking, or other similar habits.
B Liking to flirt with women, and going around showing off his manliness.
C Having a bad temper, and being stubborn and difficult to communicate with.
What men in your life have each of these types of bad habits? Which of these bad habits do you have? What do you consider to be your worst habits? Have you ever tried to change a bad habit? Why did you want to change, and what happened?
♂4 A typhoon has struck, and the news is reporting that many people have lost their homes. How would you probably be feeling?
A I would be frustrated with the government’s incompetence, thinking it can’t deal well with natural disasters.
B I would be thinking that there are reasons for their misfortune, and that they should think hard about how to avoid losing their homes.
C I would pay extra attention to human interest stories about victims, and maybe consider doing something to help them.
In general, how easily do you sympathize with other people? In what situations do you find it easiest to sympathize with others—for example, if you’ve experience the same misfortune before, or if the person is similar to you in some way? What natural disaster affected you most? What do you usually do during severe typhoons?
♀5 If you had to actively pursue a man, which approach would you take?
A Deliberately appear wherever he is, and then wait for him to make a move.
B Send him messages, such as by e-mail, and indirectly show that you like him.
C Just go ahead and make friends with him.
How many times have you actively pursued a man? If you were attracted to a man, but didn’t want to actively pursue him, what would you do to encourage him to pursue you? Has a man ever used any interesting or unusual methods in pursuing you? How well did they work? Do you think there is a secret to winning your affections?
♂5 What do you think about actively pursuing a woman you’re attracted to?
A I’m pretty passive, and hope that women will come after me instead.
B I’ve done that many times.
C I just let any feelings develop naturally, and if they do, then we might start dating.
How would you go about trying to win the affections of a woman you were attracted to? Would you ever pursue a woman whom you knew already had a boyfriend? What about a husband? How would your approach to pursuing her be different? How does your approach to pursuing different women differ? Have you ever been pursued by a woman? How did she or they do it?
♀6 Do you feel that you are a “helpless woman”?
A Sure. Not having any particular skills or knowledge is a good thing in a woman.
B I’m not quite that bad. I can hold my own.
C Absolutely not. I hate letting men have the upper hand.
What do you consider to be your strongest skills and areas of knowledge? Have you ever pretended to be less intelligent or capable than you really are? If so, why did you do this? If not, are there any situations where you might? Have ever intimidated a man with your skills or knowledge? How competitive do you think you are? Do you tend to be more competitive with men or women?
♂6 Do you spend much time on things that interest you?
A Of course. Not only do I get so obsessed that I may forget about eating and sleeping, but I would be willing to spend a lot of money on them if necessary.
B There was a time when I was obsessive about certain things, but I outgrew them.
C I think I manage my time quite well, and won’t let my interests wreak havoc with a normal lifestyle.
What are some of your personal interests? What personal interest do you spend the most time on? Do you think that you have either too many, or too few, interests? Have you ever had an interest that resulted in a situation like the one described by answer choice A? Do you prefer that your partner have strong personal interests? Do you prefer that her interests be the same as yours, or different? Why?
♀7 What would you do if you suddenly saw your idol not far away from you?
A I would hide out of shyness, and then probably later regret not having gone over to talk with him or her.
B I would just go right over and say hi.
C I might be very happy, but I probably wouldn’t do much, because talking to him or her is not really anything important.
Who are some of your idols—or if you don’t have any idols, which celebrities do you most admire? Have you ever met a celebrity in person? Do you think anyone has ever idolized you?
♂7 If you knew exactly where someone world-famous like Tiger Woods lived, and it was not far away from your home, what would you do?
A I would stake out his home every day, hoping to meet them, or at least see them going in or out.
B I wouldn’t care at all.
C If I had nothing better to do, I might go over and take a look.
What celebrity are you most interested in? Have you ever met a celebrity in person? If you could choose one celebrity to know personally, whom would you choose? How much do you think you would enjoy being a celebrity?
♀8 What do you think of reading articles written by experts on love relationships?
A Everybody’s experience of love and romance is different, so that stuff is useless as far as I’m concerned.
B I read articles like that eagerly, especially when I’m having relationship problems of my own, because they can give me some help.
C It’s better to pay no attention to that stuff than believe it completely, but I might read that stuff from time to time.
What people—famous or not—do you consider to give good advice about love relationships? How much of an expert on love relationships do you think you are? Do you think there are any strategies for having a successful love relationship? What about for marriage?
♂8 Which of these people would you most like to be?
A A very popular TV show host.
B A wealthy doctor or lawyer.
C A respected business executive.
Why did you make the choice that you did? Who is your favorite TV show host? How good a TV show host do you think you would make? Have you ever emceed an event like a competition or company party? What business executive do you admire most? Why? How good a business executive do you think you’d make?
SCORING : A = 1 | B = 2 | C = 3
RESULTS.WOMEN
8 to 12 : 好老婆機率好老婆機率 30%
不是說你不是好老婆，而是你愛自己更愛你老公。可能是認識的人少，又或者生活圈單純，所以你緊緊地繫著另一半，不願意他有太多無法預測的事情發生。我建議你可以多和姊妹淘聊聊心事交換心得。學會信任與包容，愛情才會如你想像般地甜美持久。
13 to 16 : 好老婆機率好老婆機率 50%
其實你真的很愛你的老公。只是有時候，包括你自己 也討厭的壞脾氣，使得你常常口是心非，甚至做出一 些自己都很莫名其妙的事，損人又不利己，也間接傷害彼此感情。下次發作前就試著退一步吧。別太堅持無謂的正義，吃點虧也許你會發現真愛就在眼前。
17 to 20 : 好老婆機率好老婆機率 70%
撇開吃醋不說，你可以說是個最完美的好老婆。因為 愛他，所以你可以無限制地包容他，唯獨不能允許他逾矩，就連稍微聊個天都不允許。雖然你也會默默忍受，可是累積的能量爆發也是會很嚇人的。有問題就溝通，找出彼此可以接受的模式，愛情也可以很簡單。
21 to 24 : 好老婆機率好老婆機率 80%
其實如果不是真的事實擺在眼前，否則你對老公的好，可以說是讓他如沐春風，甚至常常拿來和人吹噓炫耀。只是有時太放縱也可能讓他太墮落，請他自己定個生活公約，可以輕鬆且達成的。不管他的行蹤雖然是展現大方與對他的信任，可是你還是可以用愛來綁住他的心。
RESULTS.MEN
8 to 12 : 好老公機率好老公機率 30%
你強迫另一半接受自己的價值觀，愛情按照你寫好的劇本在走，當對方提出要求時，你總是不放在心上，認為對方又在無理取鬧！其實女孩子要的，不見得是你做了多少，而是你有沒有真的重視、在意她。想當好男人、好老公之前，就得先學會傾聽。
13 to 16 : 好老公機率好老公機率 50%
你的脾氣古怪暴躁，情緒失控時，除了言語暴力之外，你也可能施以暴力、動手動腳。雖然事後也會懊悔，但傷害造成後，卻難以彌補。懂得控制脾氣，也盡量不要鑽牛角尖。女孩要的是穩定，而不是像地雷般隨時可能引爆的老公。
17 to 20 : 好老公機率好老公機率 70%
你對女孩子很好，總是盡量溫柔體貼。只是另一半卻往往得寸進尺，冀求你付出更多的愛，因而 開始無理取鬧，讓你頗難忍受，讓婚姻或感情進而產生危機。為了雙方好，你不能忍受的事就別悶心底，免得埋下日後爭吵的導火線，自己又成 了爛好人。
21 to 24 : 好老公機率好老公機率 80%
你對女人的要求簡直到了有求必應的地步。你寧 願自己穿地攤貨，也要另一半名牌加身；寧願自己挨餓受凍，也要另一半過著少奶奶般的貴族生活。在女孩的心中，你當然是個好老公，但你忽略兩人相處，貴在心靈交流而非物質享受。
